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CHAPTER 6
LOVING TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT WITH CONFIDENCE
Learn to do good, Seek justice, Rebuke the oppressor, Defend the fatherless,
– Isaiah 1:17
When we consistently choose to engage in morally upright behavior, particularly when it entails extending help to others, we cultivate a deep-seated inclination toward upholding righteousness. Our compassionate and kind Creator finds joy in leading us to embrace virtuous deeds, which reflect His inherent goodness. As we willingly adhere to His teachings, we draw closer to Christ and exude His extraordinary character and light in our interactions with the world.
The Bible features a thought-provoking story in Luke 10:27-37. It revolves around a conversation where a man answers a question about the greatest commandment. He emphasizes the importance of loving the Lord with all the heart, soul, strength, and mind and loving one’s neighbor as oneself. When he receives affirmation that his answer is correct, he seeks further clarity from Jesus by asking, “And who is my neighbor?” In response, Jesus shares a parable about a man who is attacked by robbers while traveling from Jerusalem to Jericho and left half-dead. Significantly, both a priest and a Levite pass by the injured man without providing any assistance.
However, a Samaritan, often at odds with the injured man’s ethnicity, shows compassion, tending to his wounds, transporting him to an inn, and ensuring his ongoing care. The story culminates with Jesus prompting discussion about which of the three passersby – the priest, the Levite, or the Samaritan – acted as a neighbor to the man in dire need.
In today’s diverse society, it’s not uncommon for individuals from various backgrounds, faiths, genders, and traditions to seek connections by conforming to societal expectations of love. We need to be discerning and able to differentiate between genuine, unconditional love and superficial, conditional affection. Trust lies at the heart of love; we must develop self-trust by believing in our feelings, responsibilities, and ability to empathize. The foundation of self-trust begins with honesty – this means being transparent with ourselves, practicing self-compassion, and taking accountability for our actions. Remember, by being honest with and treating yourself with kindness and understanding, you’ll cultivate the confidence to trust and love others.
Embracing the pursuit of righteousness with self-assurance is akin to discovering a deep wellspring of genuine happiness and fulfillment in life. To achieve this, it is essential to prioritize self-care and self-protection, establishing a firm foundation of trust within ourselves. This starts with the deliberate establishment of clear boundaries that serve to shield us from physical, mental, and emotional harm. These boundaries allow us to preserve our individuality and play a critical role in maintaining our physical and psychological well-being while preventing the accumulation of pent-up anger and resentment.
Furthermore, the presence of clear boundaries facilitates the healthy navigation of our relationships with others and with ourselves. Without boundaries, we become vulnerable to being taken advantage of by others.
Navigating relationships effectively is essential to fostering self-assurance, self-reliance, and true happiness. By developing clear boundaries and clearly outlining the consequences of violating them, we entrust ourselves with the conviction to always act in our best interest and treat others with empathy.
Achieving authentic happiness and confidence requires us to fully accept and appreciate ourselves, allowing us to pursue love and relationships with a deep sense of assurance and faith. This delicate equilibrium is rooted in our innermost feelings, personal satisfaction, and external influences contributing to our overall well-being and satisfaction.
We can experience absolute joy and profound empathy when we attain this state. This empowers us to love others wholeheartedly without expectations or preconceived notions, fostering meaningful relationships and cherishing time spent with family as the cornerstone of true happiness. It’s a beautiful realization of our capacity to form genuine connections with others, marking a moment of authentic joy and unshakeable confidence.
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